[500] days of summer

FOUR words...I AM IN LOVE!!!

I just got finished watching 500 days of summer and it exuded the realest message that i have ever seen in a cheesy romance film. EVER! Now and again i watch movies that i fall head over heels for, and this was one of them.

Zooey Deschanel (who is the twin of Katy Perry...i'm convinced) and Joseph Gordon-Hewitt were remarkable (the weird boy from 10 things i hate about you) and just the ultimate SHIT! ...pardon my french.

All in all this movie was the opposite of a "fairytale" and strayed away from the predictable endings of many romance films. It sent the message that it is okay to believe in fairytales and "soulmates", but remember to open your eyes to whats around you. So often we fall in love, or believe that this person is the "one" for us, and fails to cross our mind that just "maybe" they don't want what we want. Sure you may have EVERYTHING in common, but one's fairytale may not be the other persons... Sometimes we like to reminisce on all the beautiful times we shared with that person and overlook the little things that could have given us the message that that person is just not the right one for us.

Ultimately 500 days of summer is pure amazement! and a MUST SEE! ....even tho i was turned on and off by the personality of zooey deschanel's character, i grew to appreciate her throughout the movie and it made it THAT much better!

beaaaaautiful beaaaaautiful romance movie! ....but only not so romantic!

U.N.I.T.Y.

I love this video!!! It was on Oprah and i fell in loveeee. i seen a similar one for the T-Mobile commercial which is also RIDIC!...

amazing how it all starts with ONE PERSON....

QUOTE OF THE DAY

" WHEN PEOPLE SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM"- maya angelou

DEVIL.COM

SO! i must share with you sexy people that i have OFFICIALLY deleted my twitter! && i feel great!!!!!!
No longer do i feel the need to tweet my every thought and activity..i can truly just live my life now!! (pause for a relieved *sigh) Honestly i asked myself, what is the point of twitter? It's like a sick twisted drug that people need to get a hit off of knowing what other people are doing and thinking! How dare we become SO involved with another person's life instead of being full on in the one we're living. I realized that I would have to part my ways with twitter when I found myself having emotional breakdowns when twitter was down! lol My body was even rejecting my obsessed twitter lifestyle... most INTENSE migranes ever!! and it was only after I finished reading my timeline.

Enough was Enough!!!

In my opinion, Social networks are the devil! Seriously social networks are becoming more and more dependable on how other people view you. Why do we feel the need to constantly update our profile pic to appease society and await comments on how we look? Have we seriously become THAT involved in the opinion of others! Yes; I have a facebook and even a throw back Myspace, a "true hypocrite" I am. At least i am aware of my problem, and face it... WE HAVE A PROBLEM AMERICA!

Something that I find the UTMOST annoying with social networks is that they many times they don't even depict who the person truly is in person. I can't tell you how many times I've met someone who is soooo far from the person they portray themselves to be on " satan sites". OKAY OKAY! so maybe i'm being a [tad] dramatic calling these sites demonic names lol. I'm just over all the lies and illusions facebook and twitter provide... its aggy!


AND HELLLOOOO, Women!!, we become extremely insecure if someone doesn't like our new profile pic, or even if we post a pic of a boyfriend, we care if others think we look "cute together." How did the opinion of others take over our lives!ahh! It's truly depressing guys! Seriously, I run across a few women a "lifetime" that make me truly say "i admire her"...(aside from my mother).those women are the ones who can CARE LESS what people think of them, i.e. Lisa Bonet. I've always loved her free spirit. I remember watching an interview on her awhile back, and she said something that stuck with me. " I am who I want to be", and I thought, how many people can honestly say the same thing. even myself.

Think for a second:
Are you really the person that you want to be completely? and more importantly, " Who do you want to be?"

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New Years 2010

first of all let me begin with saying HAPPY NEW YEARS!!! 2010 is a whole new decade that opens doors to new opportunities, new experiences, new lessons, and new lives. It's amazing thinking about all that you can attain going into a new year. At first I didn't understand people's mind state about new years and how they just want to change so much about themselves. I realized that people just want to better themselves, and a new year is like a breath of fresh air. I GET IT!! lol
Well going into a new year I must say, I will continue to stick to my beliefs and bring fourth a more positive attitude into the new year...i will continue to live for myself and nobody else!...new year can mean so much for so many people, but for me its a way to carry over some things into the present and let go of some aspects of my past. New years is like going to a new school. You can be whatever/whoever you want to be, a clean slate,,,and i will take FULL ADVANTAGE.